Published on:

Teen and Parent Legal Angst and What to do about it


1) My 15 year old has debts. Can his creditors get money from me?
2) How do I seal my juvenile crime record?
3) My 18 year old is dating a 15 year old. Help!
4) What do I have to tell the cops when they stop me at school or while I’m driving?
Public librarians get lots of legal questions from teens and their parents. As is true for many legal questions, some of the answers should come only from attorneys and all should come from trusted legal resources so be prepared to do some reading and maybe some research.

In past posts I’ve blogged about babysitting (including the frequently asked “when can I leave my kids alone?” question) and related legal issues. Today I’ll post about some resources available specifically for teens and their parents. (See recent updates (e.g. 6/15/09), but also click on the Home Alone label in the sidebar.)

As is also true for most legal questions, the specific question and answer at hand is only part of the picture so the research process itself is part of the solution and a learning occasion or teachable moment, whichever side of the reference desk you are on. Parents may think they just want to know what their 15-year old should know before dating that 19-year old, but in the course of finding the legal answer, they can learn an awful lot about parenting, teens, and life in general.

But to return to the teen legal question: there are lots of Oregon-centric sources of information for teens and their parents, so without further ado:

The terrific “Juvenile Rights Handbook,” is published by the Multnomah Bar Association. You can also find it online from the Oregon State Bar (OSB) website using this link.

The Oregon State Bar (OSB) is another source of useful information for parents and teenagers. One is their Information and Referral Service, at 503-684-3763 (or, out of the Portland metro area, 1-800-452-7636). OSB has a legal help service just for teens, here: “Oregon lawyers volunteer as Problem Solvers to offer free legal information and advice to young people. If you are between 11 and 17 years old, you can call to ask for a Problem Solvers lawyer. The number is 503-684-3763 in the Portland area and toll-free elsewhere in Oregon at 800-452-7636.”

Your local public library may also have brochures or web pages with resources specifically for teens and their parents. I like the Teens information page at Multnomah County Library and their links to all sorts of information for teenagers.

Try these also:

The State of Oregon Commission on Children and Families.

Some counties have additional resources through their Juvenile Services departments. For example:

Washington County, visit this website.

In Multnomah County, visit this one.

In Clackamas County, visit this one.

If you want to research your legal question yourself, you can perform some of the legal research online but you might find it easier to research this at your county law library. Most Oregon counties have a county law library and your local public library could direct you. You could also call my law library, the Washington County Law Library (503-846-8880) and ask for directions to your nearest public law library.

There might be laws other than the state statutes and regulations that apply in the particular situation. Local (e.g. city) ordinances enacting curfews for minors, or even school district regulations restricting particular types of conduct between “adults” and “minors”, or even students and non-students, at school-sponsored events are examples of these.

You may also contact local educational or law enforcement organizations as to what curfew or conduct restrictions might apply to school-sponsored activities, particularly for a minor accompanied by an 18-year old.

In the law, simple questions don’t always have simple answers and each person’s situation is unique so don’t be surprised to hear a lot of people say to you, “it depends,” whenever you ask a legal question. But law librarians and lawyers who work with juveniles are glad you asked. Teens have lots of questions, almost as many as their parents do.

Published on:

One response to “Teen and Parent Legal Angst and What to do about it”

  1. For Immediate Release

    Teen Driving Watch Monitoring Program
    Puts the Brakes on Reckless Teen Driving

    Rancho Cucamonga, California, May 20, 2007 — If you are driving and see a police car in your rearview mirror, what do you do? Most of us immediately check to make sure we are following the rules of the road. It’s just human nature to change our behavior to avoid a negative consequence, such as a ticket. A program called Teen Driving Watch uses that powerful motivator to get teens to drive safely.

    Teen Driving Watch works by letting teen drivers know that their behavior behind the wheel is being monitor, not just by police officers, but by the entire community. As one law enforcement officer put it, Teen Driving Watch is “Neighborhood Watch on Wheels.” Any member of the community who observes a teen driving recklessly can simply call the Teen Driving Watch Hotline, enter the unique ID number assigned to that teen’s car, and leave a voice message about the teen’s behavior. All calls are anonymous.

    The message, exactly as it was recorded, is forwarded to the parents of the teen driver in seconds. Because parents hear the actual recording of the message about their teen’s behavior, they can make their own judgment about the seriousness of the issue and the credibility of the caller.

    A unique advantage of the Teen Driving Watch Parental Notification System is that its quick response (in generally less than 10 seconds) allows a parent to call their teen’s cell phone and intervene when the reckless driving behavior is actually occurring.

    If the parent’s phone is busy or is not answered, the notification system will leave a recorded message and call other numbers provided by the parent. In addition, the message is transmitted over the Web as an audible “attachment” to the email addresses, also provided by the parent.

    Law enforcement officers say they like Teen Driving Watch because, if minor infractions occur, it allows them to use their cell phones to send a warning message directly to the parents of the teen driver knowing that it will be transmitted in seconds.

    Another feature law enforcement officer’s welcome is the option for Teen Driving Watch bumper sticker to help them identify provisional drivers at a distance. This supports enforcement of new Graduated Drivers License laws that are in force in many states.

    Jim Rogenmoser, President of Teen Driving, says, “Our goal is simple: to save lives and make our roads safer for everyone. Each year more than 8,900 teen drivers, passengers, innocent motorists, pedestrians and bicyclists are killed on our highways and hundreds of thousands of people are injured in auto accidents caused by teen drivers. Four out of every ten (40%) teens who die in the next year will lose their lives in a teen-caused auto accident. Teen Driving Watch is an effective, inexpensive way to solve a problem that costs lives, untold human suffering and over 40 billion dollars.”

    About Teen Driving Watch

    Teen Driving Watch, based in Southern California, provides teen driver monitoring service throughout the United States. Jim Rogenmoser, President of Teen Driving Watch, is the parent of a teen and a former high school teacher. Teen Driving Watch is available throughout the United States and Canada directly to parents by enrolling at A free 9 minute DVD introducing Teen Driving Watch is also available by contacting .

    Contact Information:
    Jim Rogenmoser, M. Ed.
    Teen Driving Watch
    Direct Line: 805-258-8313

Contact Information